Respect Your Parents 

The Father asked his Son, “What is this?” The Son replied “It is a crow”. After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time, “What is this?” The Son said “Father, I have just now told you “It’s a crow”. After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the 3rd time, What is this?”

At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the Son’s tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. “It’s a crow, a crow”.A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th time, “What is this?”
This time the Son shouted at his Father, “Why do you keep asking me the same question again and again, although I have told you so many times ‘IT IS A CROW’. Are you not able to understand this?”
A little later the Father went to his room and came back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained since his Son was born. On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that page. When the son read it, the following words were written in the diary :-
“Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window. My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to him all 23 times that it was a Crow. I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child”.
If your parents attain old age, do not repulse them or look at them as a burden, but speak to them a gracious word, be cool, obedient, humble and kind to them. Be considerate to your parents.From today say this aloud, “I want to see my parents happy forever. They have cared for me ever since I was a little child. They have always showered their selfless love on me.

Happy Children makes Happy Country!!!!

Like many of you I was also shocked reading the headline “All The Accused In Kumbakonam Fire Which Took 94 Lives Acquitted By Madras High Court”

Did we or state/central governments learn any lesson from that 17 year old incident to make our cities and villages better for younger generation….

As per 2011 census 4 million children are child labourers.The plight they go through in those pathetic unworkable environment is different.

Once you pull them out of the gutter to provide education, many govt schools do neither provide quality education nor they feel the responsibility to bring them as responsible citizens.

Now we see a paradigm shift of children from private schools to government schools in Delhi.Raising the standard of govt schools should be the key focus of any government.

According to the fourth edition of the National Family Health Survey conducted in 2014-15, India’s national average IMR fell sharply from 57 to 41. The survey, released after a decade, also pegs Kerala’s under-five mortality rate (U5MR) at 7 on par with US.

It feels bad when kids die because of curable diseases due to lack of treatment.Today 30-60 children died in UP due to hospital and govt negligence.

Once you save them from all these you find them getting abused by strangers,friends,relatives and even in school.

Safeguarding them from abuse, providing good healthcare and good education should be the priority.

As a tax paying individual we feel that our hard earned tax money should be spent on such priorities rather than liquor abundance in TN , cow ambulance in UP and other less priorities.

Instead of making it mandatory to sing Vande Matram in schools healthy food, life and quality education should be made mandatory.

Customer Commitment

A train company has been stopping at a remote station for the past three years to pick up just one passenger.

The Kami-Shirataki station in Hokkaido, Japan, is visited by a train twice a day, once in the morning and once in the afternoon, so that a schoolgirl can get to class and home on time.

Teenager, Kana, catches the service at 7.04am every day and returns promptly at 5.08pm, and she is the only person to use the station.

Hokkaido Railway Co’s service has been praised for its commitment to its customers following the discovery.The company had initially planned to shut down the train station, which was almost unused, in 2012 due to its remote location.

After investigating, it was found that the line was used every day by the young girl – so the company announced that it would stay open until she graduates from high school in March 2016.

Speaking on a video, Kana said: ‘I got on and off of this train for the past three years and this station’s presence has become something I have taken for granted.

Trains stop at the station based on the schoolgirl’s timetable and pass by when she is on holiday on her classes are off.The station is served by the single-track and lies 50 miles from the official starting point of the line at Shin-Asahikawa.The station is served by the single-track and lies 50 miles from the official starting point of the line at Shin-Asahikawa

It was closed permanently on March 26.

 

Be an eagle. .not a Duck. 

Ducks Quack, Eagles Soar…
I was waiting in line for a ride at the airport in Dubai. When a cab pulled up, the first thing I noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine. Smartly dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for me.

He handed me a laminated card and said: ‘I’m Abdul, your driver. While I’m loading your bags in the trunk I’d like you to read my mission statement.’

Taken aback, I read the card. It said: Abdul’s Mission Statement:

To get my customers to their destination in the quickest, safest and cheapest way possible in a friendly environment.

This blew me away. Especially when I noticed that the inside of the cab matched the outside. Spotlessly clean!

As he slid behind the wheel, Abdul said, ‘Would you like a cup of coffee? I have a thermos of regular and one of decaf.’

I said jokingly, ‘No, I’d prefer a soft drink.’

Abdul smiled and said, ‘No problem. I have a cooler up front with regular and Diet Coke, lassi, water and orange juice.’

Almost stuttering, I said, ‘I’ll take a Lassi.’

Handing me my drink, Abdul said, ‘If you’d like something to read, I have The NST , Star and Sun Today.’

As they were pulling away, Abdul handed me another laminated card, ‘These are the stations I get and the music they play, if you’d like to listen to the radio.’

And as if that weren’t enough, Abdul told me that he had the air conditioning on and asked if the temperature was comfortable for me.

Then he advised me of the best route to my destination for that time of day. He also let me know that he’d be happy to chat and tell me about some of the sights or, if I preferred, to leave me with my own thoughts.

‘Tell me, Abdul ,’ I was amazed and asked him, ‘have you always served customers like this?’

Abdul smiled into the rear view mirror. “No, not always. In fact, it’s only been in the last two years. My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining like all the rest of the cabbies do. Then I heard about POWER OF CHOICE one day.”

Power of choice is that you can be a duck or an eagle.

‘If you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you’ll rarely disappoint yourself. Stop complaining!’

‘Don’t be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar above the crowd.’

‘That hit me. really hard’ said Abdul.

‘It is about me. I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and become an eagle. I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers. The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy. So I decided to make some changes, slowly … a few at a time. When my customers responded well, I did more.’

‘I take it that it has paid off for you,’ I said.

‘It sure has,’ Abdul replied. ‘My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from the previous year. This year I’ll probably quadruple it. My customers call me for appointments on my cell phone or leave a message on it.’

Abdul made a different choice. He decided to stop quacking like a duck and start soaring like an eagle.

Start becoming an eagle today … one small step every week..next week… And next…And….

A great Thought..

“You don’t die if you fall in water, you die only if you don’t swim.

Thats the Real Meaning of Life.

Improve yourself and your skills in a different way.

Be an eagle. .not a Duck. 

Create your life…!!

TN political fiasco

TN people had been choosing CM by playing Rock,Paper and Scissors (Inky pinky ponky) as they had to choose one of the two corrupt leaders.

People had voted for Jayalalitha knowing all the crime Sasikala family had committed in the past with Jayas influence.Now I don’t see a point in cribbing.

Why public is so scared of Sasikala and her family ? What did she do in the past ? What is known to media and public is very few and listed below…..

You can use a single grain of rice to test whether the pot of rice is cooked.பானை சோத்துக்கு, ஒரு சோறு பதம்.

  1. In 90’s for Dinakaran marriage Sasikala forced Balu jewellers to bring best gold jewellery from his stores to Jaya’s house and got 40 crores worth of jewellery and promising to pay the sum.They never paid and instead threatened him eventually he committed suicide.Considering gold inflation it would be 4000 crores today.
  2. Gangai Amaran came out in public and made charges that Sasikala family forced him to sell acres of land in prime ECR location at a very cheap rate.
  3. Arappor iyakkam claims Sasikala and family have benami property worth 5000 crores.Ref this

All this was committed without being in power.Imagine how it could go wrong if they are in power.That’s why everyone is scared to even give her a chance.

Coming to OPS, he was chosen to be dummy CM during short absence of Jaya.Later he was easierchoice after Jayas death.Now he is getting a chance to interact with media and perform.Though he is not the most holy cow definitely a better choice than Sasikala.

One more reason why TN public seems happy with OPS, not only that he was on the ground for recent storm, Jallikattu protest and Oil spill but they are seeing their CM interact with public via media after many years.

In many parts of TN people got money to vote and we end up suffering in these corrupt hands….

Gandhiji and his experiments

The great soul Gandhiji was born on October 2nd.Whatever and how much ever said about Gandhiji is incomplete.He knew the pulse of people.For all his movements people initially opposed but eventually most of them agreed to his principles.He had the will to stop riots by just fasting.We all should try to adapt his sayings into our lives.

In current world , when there is a great attempt to spread Hatred and recent Modi’s attempt to remove Gandhi from the famous image with Khadi Charka it becomes more important to spread his preaching.

He left all of us on January 30th…

If many had followed him earth would be like heaven.He rightly said “Be the change that you wish to see in this world.”

Some rare happenings in his life………..

Gandhiji and General Smuts

General Smuts expressed his respect for Gandhi and his gentle but powerful methods.

When Gandhi sent a pair of sandals he had made while in jail to his main adversary, Smuts, the General is quoted as saying “I have worn these sandals for many a summer since then even though I may feel that I am not worthy to stand in the shoes of so great a man”.Smuts kept those sandals in showcase.

Gandhiji spinning Khakhi

Gandhiji’s Human touch

A few weeks prior to Independence Day of 1947, an emissary of Pandit Nehru and Sardar Patel was sent to Gandhi at Calcutta, who was working for peace and harmony among the Hindus and Muslims. The emissary went with a letter from Pandit Nehru and Sardar Patel.

Gandhi served him food and opened the letter from Nehru and Patel. They had written: “Bapu you are the father of the nation. 15th August 1947, will be the first Independence Day and we want you to come to Delhi to give us the blessings.” Gandhi said: ” How stupid!. When Bengal is burning, Hindus and Muslims are killing each other and I hear their cries of the agony in the darkness of Calcutta, how can I go to Delhi with the glittering lights?” These words are the heart-rending words of Gandhi.

He said “I have to live here for the establishment of peace in Bengal and if need be, I have to give up my life for ensuring that there is harmony and peace.” The emissary started for his return journey in the morning.

Gandhi gave  a dry leaf fell from the tree above him. Gandhi picked it up and put it on his palm and said: ” My friend, you are going back to Delhi. What gift can Gandhi give to Pandit Nehru and Sardar Patel? I am a man without power and wealth. Give this dry leaf to Nehru and Patel, as my first Independence day gift.” And when he was saying this, tears came from the eyes of the emissary. And with a sense of humour Gandhi said: ” How the great is God? He did not want Gandhi to send that dry leaf. He made it wet. It is glistening with laughter. Carry this leaf as a gift full of your tears.”

That was Gandhi’s human touch.

Women in Champaran

Gandhi had sent a team of workers to study and report on the problems of the Champaran district. Gandhi felt report was incomplete without women’s problems. Since women of Kasturba Gandhiwere very shy  Gandhi deputed Kasturba Gandhi and Avantikabai Gokhale to visit Champaran to report on women’s agony. The women of Champaran would not first meet them and even open their doors.

At sunset Kasturba Gandhi knocked one door and told the women inside: ” We are moving your town from sunrise to sunset. We are now thirsty. Will you not offer us a glass of water ?” A door was then slightly opened. A woman’s hand peeped out with a glass of water on her palm. Kasturba drank water and then said: ” Sister we have seen your hand. We have seen the glass of water on your palm. But we want to see the women behind this hand.”

The woman inside broke down. She said: “Three women of our household share only one untorn saree and as one woman has gone out with that saree how could others open the door for you and expose our semi-naked bodies?” Kasturba told the weeping woman: “Close the door. The doors of your heart are opened.” Kasturba and Avantikabai, touched by the reply, returned to Gandhi with this heart-rending report about women in Champaran. It steeled Gandhi’s determination not to rest till the honour of these women were restored.

Gandhiji with Jawaharlal Nehru

Gandhiji and his dressing

Gandhiji, during his visit to Madurai stayed in the residence of Sri Ramji Kalyanji, who respectfully invited him to his house, on 21.09.1921. During his stay there at night he was mentally agitated and worried to think of the various farmers and poor people on his way dressed in scarce cloths that is only a small towel like dhothi around the waist and were shivering with cold, while he was  wearing long turbans khurtha and dhoties.

So overnight he took a decision that he should be a model to everyone and to dress in a simple manner like the peasants and poor people he witnessed in his journey to Madurai and he carried out this from the very next day itself. On 22-09-1921 (the next day) morning all were shocked to see him in his new pattern of dress and Gandhiji explained them about his decision and he followed this throughout his life. Then he attended the meetings in Madurai (The place now called as Gandhi Pottal) at 0700 hrs, explaining the reason for his new mode of dress therein. Then he attended the meeting at Karaikudi and returned to his destination.

Gandhiji and Chaplin

You must have seen Charlie Chaplin, the great humourist, on the screen. On the screen, he makes you laugh but when he returns home he cries in anguish. Once Byron wrote: “If I laugh at any mortal things, it is that I may not weep.” Gandhi went to see Charlie Chaplin in a small house in a slum district of London. After their meeting was over, Gandhi asked Charlie Chaplin: “Would you like to see the demonstration of our prayers?” He said: “There is no room for you.” Gandhi said: “You sit on the sofa, we will sit down on the floor”, and he offered the prayers, Charlie Chaplin wrote. “Gandhi and his men did not feel embarrassed to sit on the floor in front of me but I literally felt embarrassed to sit on the sofa and look down upon Gandhi and his colleagues.”

Gandhiji and Peace

Gandhi received an acknowledgement of his mission for peace through a letter from Lord Mountbatten on 26 August 1947. In his letter Mountbatten wrote:

“My dear Gandhiji,

In the Punjab we have 55

Thousand soldiers and large scale

Rioting on our hands. In Bengal

Our forces consist of one man, and

There is no rioting.

As a serving officer, as

Well as an administrator, may

I be allowed to pay my tribute to

The One Boundary Force,

Not forgetting his Second in

Command, Mr. Suhrawardy?

You should have heard

The enthusiastic applause which

Greeted the mention of your name

In the Constituent Assembly on

15th of August when all

of us were thinking so much of you..

Yours very sincerely,

Mountbatten of Burma”

Gandhiji and World Countries

Gandhiji is also the most used Indian face in the world of philately. It is said that 80 countries have issued about 250 stamps on the Mahatma. Of them, and not considering India, the U.S. was the first country to issue Gandhi stamps, on January 26, 1961. The set of two stamps was released as part of the “Champions of Liberty Series”. Congo was the next, in 1967.

GANDHI RELEASED FROM PRISON

Gandhiji and Giving

Mahatma Gandhi went from city to city, village to village collecting funds for the Charkha Sangh. During one of his tours he addressed a meeting in Orissa. After his speech a poor old woman got up. She was bent with age, her hair was grey and her clothes were in tatters.

The volunteers tried to stop her, but she fought her way to the place where Gandhiji was sitting. “I must see him,” she insisted and going up to Gandhiji touched his feet. Then from the folds of her sari she brought out a copper coin and placed it at his feet. Gandhiji picked up the copper coin and put it away carefully.

The Charkha Sangh funds were under the charge of Jamnalal Bajaj. He asked Gandhiji for the coin but Gandhiji refused. “I keep cheques worth thousands of rupees for the Charkha Sangh,” Jamnalal Bajaj said laughingly “yet you won’t trust me with a copper coin.”

“This copper coin is worth much more than those thousands,” Gandhiji said. “If a man has several lakhs and he gives away a thousand or two, it doesn’t mean much. But this coin was perhaps all that the poor woman possessed. She gave me all she had. That was very generous of her. What a great sacrifice she made. That is why I value this copper coin more than a crore of rupees.

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